1:1 Childbirth Trauma Therapy for Mothers

You've tried to "move on" after what happened during birth.
But the weight still lingers.

You stay busy caring for your baby, going through the motions.

You tell yourself, “This must be what motherhood is.”

But certain things hit hard like

  • Driving past the hospital

  • Hearing a baby cry

  • Retelling your birth story

You wonder, “Am I too sensitive?” or “Shouldn’t I be over this?

You’re not broken. You’re not failing.

You’re dealing with PTSD after giving birth and you’re not alone.

Healing isn’t about forgetting. It’s about making space for what happened and feeling safe again in your body and life.

It's about actually feeling safe in your body again consistently.

It's not about knowing that you should feel better.

  • True healing doesn’t come from forcing yourself to move on.

  • It starts with gently understanding how trauma has impacted your mind, body, and sense of self.

  • Even with love and support, your body might still carry what happened.

  • If you feel on edge, disconnected, or like you're holding on by a thread, your nervous system may still be activated in survival mode.

  • And that’s not your fault. It’s your body’s way of protecting you

What We’ll Work on Together

  • You may have had hopes and dreams for your birth that were shattered.

  • We’ll gently work through those losses, such as:

    • Grieving the experience you didn’t have

    • Processing the way you were treated

    • Healing from what your body went through.

Grief Support for Childbirth Trauma

  • Trauma can leave you feeling on edge, numb, or easily overwhelmed.

  • This means you’re outside your “window of tolerance.”

  • I’ll help you:

    • Understand your body’s response

    • Learn grounding tools

    • Feel like yourself again

Understanding Your Emotional Reactions

Making Sense of Your Trauma Response

  • You might be thinking, “I should have spoken up” or “Why didn’t I do more?”

  • We’ll explore these thoughts with compassion.

  • Together, we’ll shift from self-blame to understanding by asking:

    • Not “What’s wrong with me?”

    • But “What happened to me?”

Rediscovering Yourself After Birth

  • Who are you now, after becoming a mother and surviving this trauma?

  • Using NARM (NeuroAffective Relational Model), we’ll:

    • Explore how this experience has shaped you

    • Help you reconnect with parts of yourself you may have shut down to cope

Proven Tools for Healing

Our work may include:

  • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) to gently process trauma and reduce emotional pain

  • NARM (NeuroAffective Relational Model) to explore reconnecting with all parts of you. 

  • Somatic and grounding techniques to help your body feel safe again. 

  • Emotion regulation tools so you can feel more in control day-to-day

Ready to Chat?

The BIRTH Healing Framework

A safe space where your birth story matters — without feeling minimized, judged, or silenced.

B — Be Seen and Heard

I — Identify Triggers and Responses

Learn ways to manage the emotional reactivity to triggers and reminders of the birth.

R — Release Painful Memories

Use EMDR and birth debrief techniques to process trauma safely while unpacking the weight of the past. This is not about erasing the past, it is processing what happened and how to move forward.

Reconnect with your body and your sense of self to ultimately feel grounded and secure in motherhood again.

T — Take Back Your Safety

Move forward with compassion and patience, knowing healing is a journey and we move at a pace that works best for you.

H — Heal at Your Own Pace